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Re: Controversial rapper Jim Jones to speak at Jersey City's "HIV/AIDS and the Hip-Hop Generation" e
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So why the vitriol?

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Simple.

It is amusing to hear Sal opine on the prevention of HIV epidemic, considering that he thinks only "white folk" is offended by a theory that HIV was unleashed on the black population by the US Government.

Since that statement by Sal on jclist, it has turned out that at least one member of the "black folk", Barack Obama, is also offended by that notion.

Sal is a crude race-baiter, hence the vitriol.


The guy whose first contribution to this thread consisted of "They'd listen to their parents, if they, uhm, had parents" accuses other people of race-baiting. Right.

Most bigots I've run into have at least had the balls to not whine like a victim when they're called out on exactly what they're insinuating. This one thinks he's Bill Cosby.

Thanks for the continued comedy. A shame it comes at the expense of an actual serious topic a hell of a lot more important than your petty need to marginalize minority kids and inflate your ego. Good job making the conversation about you.

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Re: Controversial rapper Jim Jones to speak at Jersey City's "HIV/AIDS and the Hip-Hop Generation" e
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1) Both of you agree there are problems with this guy delivering the message.

2) Both of you agree that it is an important issue that should be addressed.

3) You disagree if the negativity of the messenger outweighs the importance of the message.

So why the vitriol?

GWB


I can only speak for myself, but since you've asked, I'll account for my share of the vitriol. injcsince81 drops bigoted generalizations about minority groups, and then cries wolf when he gets called on it. One need only spend a few minutes and click about half a dozen random links in his posting history to see the pattern of dismissive, invidious, and deliberately misleading commentary. And he gets off on it.

Issues like communicating to kids about HIV/AIDS shouldn't be politicized, and one need look no further than this thread to see how much ignorance still exists about the epidemic.

And with all due respect, greenville, I don't disagree that there are a lot of problems with a lot of messages in hip-hop, but it's myopic and pointless to think that "if we just stopped rap, it'd all go away." Hip-hop isn't going anywhere, and it's patently false to characterize all rap with one brush.

When Jim Jones is telling these kids about how his father and his uncle spent years in and out of jail, were hopeless junkies, and then he got to watch them die of AIDS, please check in with these kids about the message they're getting.

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Re: Controversial rapper Jim Jones to speak at Jersey City's "HIV/AIDS and the Hip-Hop Generation" e
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How is it that having Jim Jones speak on one topic legitimizes his views on others? Just because he may not have socially acceptable opinions on certain topics doesn't mean that he can't and shouldn't promote messages that are positive and socially acceptable. Homophobia and violence are everywhere in hip hop - unfortunately it's the way it is, but it's not just Jim Jones.

The fact of the matter is kids like rap. They listen to rappers and public figures, so why not have a positive message coming from someone they're actually excited to see and hear from? Makes sense to me.


I don't know how to reply to this.

Would you send your kids to listen to OJ Simpson talk about anger management?

Geeeeez.



Please enlighten us, injc, as to how you connect those same dots between OJ and anger, that you do between Jones and HIV/AIDS. Thanks.


Both have about the same credibility talking about the respective subjects.


Yay I love when you artificially conflate things as if they are objectively "true".

Jones actually has plenty of credibility to speak to people about the effects of HIV/AIDS in the urban black and hispanic experience. The guy's father and uncle died of the epidemic, and he's one of the few people in his profession actually willing to share his personal experience with a captive audience.

But hey, I forget that injcsince81 had been appointed arbiter of credibility. (Even typing that sentence made me laugh out loud).

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Re: Controversial rapper Jim Jones to speak at Jersey City's "HIV/AIDS and the Hip-Hop Generation" e
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How is it that having Jim Jones speak on one topic legitimizes his views on others? Just because he may not have socially acceptable opinions on certain topics doesn't mean that he can't and shouldn't promote messages that are positive and socially acceptable. Homophobia and violence are everywhere in hip hop - unfortunately it's the way it is, but it's not just Jim Jones.

The fact of the matter is kids like rap. They listen to rappers and public figures, so why not have a positive message coming from someone they're actually excited to see and hear from? Makes sense to me.


I don't know how to reply to this.

Would you send your kids to listen to OJ Simpson talk about anger management?

Geeeeez.


This lesson in knowingly bogus false-analogies brought to you by injcsince81.

Fact is, Jones isn't being brought in to talk about "snitching", or about homophobia, or about police-citizen interaction. He's being brought in to talk to kids about HIV/AIDS.

Please enlighten us, injc, as to how you connect those same dots between OJ and anger, that you do between Jones and HIV/AIDS. Thanks.

Posted on: 2008/5/19 4:39
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I never had a prob at Taqueria, they are super friendly and the environment is always pleasant. The place lacks attitude and serves really simple food. It is not for the snobbish or people that need to be the center of attention. Its a total positive place so if you walk in with negativity the positive forces will kick your butt out.


"The place lacks attitude"? It's "not for the snobbish"?

What one considers "attitude" or "snobbish" is subjective, to be sure, but I can definitely say I encountered what I consider some seriously bad attitude the two times I was there.

I don't go to back to Taqueria for the same reasons I try to minimize my time spent in Williamsburg, Brooklyn. Some people love it there, and good for them. Just not my thing.

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Re: Controversial rapper Jim Jones to speak at Jersey City's "HIV/AIDS and the Hip-Hop Generation" e
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In your voluminous response you totally ignored my point that having a rapper with a history of of homophobia and violence present an anti-HIV message to kids may do more harm than good because of the legitimization of the above in the eyes of the audience.

Nice job dodging the main point and instead exploring the meaning of "optimal" and "no parents", and feigning outrage.

Your juxtaposition of "Dr. Cosby" and "crude" is breathtaking, but your fine rhetoric notwithstanding, you're missing the main point nonetheless.


Hahaha the above post purports to call somebody else out on dodging points? That's a knee-slapper.

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Re: Controversial rapper Jim Jones to speak at Jersey City's "HIV/AIDS and the Hip-Hop Generation" e
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Yep - Bill Cosby was absolutely murdered by people like you for exactly the same sentiment some time ago.

What a racist.


Gee, that was far easier than actually responding to the points I made, now wasn't it?



That's because I actually agreed with most of your reasoning regarding the difficulty in bringing in athletes to talk about HIV.

However, I am still not convinced that having a gangsta rapper deliver the message is an optimal solution. The problem lies in the fact that a good message by the rapper legitimizes his homophobic and violent lyrics in the minds of the kids.


When exactly is the last time you've encountered a solution to a major problem that was, in practice, optimal? I never argued that this is optimal, but I certainly believe there is a vast distance between "optimal" and "without value".

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Even if I buy your argument that it's next to impossible to get a known athlete to talk to kids about HIV, I'm pretty sure there are regular people with HIV who could talk very convincingly and capture the kids' attention.


Nothing is stopping schools and communities from also getting people living with HIV/AIDS in to talk to kids. I know people who volunteer their time doing exactly that. That's a separate issue altogether from being given the opportunity, warts and all, to have an unlikely and highly visible advocate for HIV/AIDS come in for a major event, and telling them "no thanks."

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What I totally did not agree with is that my "parents" comment was arrogant and bigoted, and to that I responded with a relevant analogy.

Fact is, whether you want to call it bigoted or not, that active parents are sorely lacking in working class/poor African American communities.

The statistics are devastating - something like 80% single parent households in some places.


As the product of a single-parent household, in a nation where the leading contender for the highest office is the child of a single-parent household, I deeply resent and am insulted by your mathematics that readily equate 1 parent to zero parents. How dare you.

Fact is, there is nothing "relevant" about your mischaracterizing Dr. Cosby's message and conflating it with your own crude, socio-economic and racial stereotyping.

Again, I never suggested there wasn't a problem in many communities, including our own, regarding parenting and responsibility being taught in the household. But your dismissive, arrogant, uninformed assumptions are part of the problem, and in no way part of the solution.

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The results of that are equally devastating - HIV/AIDS being one of them.

You say having a rapper deliver the anti-HIV message is OK; I say there are probably many other choices of the messenger which are better.


And again, I ask you to find them for me. Nobody in this thread has said this is optimal, nobody has said this is ideal. But I'm not sure you and I live on the same planet if you're willing to forgo viable options with the potential to do good in the name of waiting for that "optimal" solution to land in your lap.

You've actually lived in the city for 27 years and not figured out that part of life involves making the best out of what you're given?

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Re: Controversial rapper Jim Jones to speak at Jersey City's "HIV/AIDS and the Hip-Hop Generation" e
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Not disputing it's a serious issue. I guess what torques me the most is that it is so hard to reach these kids (or so it seems) that this is the best that can be done.


Which is exactly why I feel the way I do about the issue. I understand the frustration, but I'm willing to give it a shot if good can come of it.

I don't think it should be overlooked that redemption is something kids in already difficult situations don't get to see enough of. If this guy's story can make them think about HIV/AIDS, and about the difference between the showmanship of Hip-Hop lyrics and the reality of crime, drugs, and promiscuity, then I think it's worthwhile, and could go a long way toward injecting a reality check into the way that they relate to Hip-Hop. Which I think we both agree would be a good thing.

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Re: the lyrics- I was tempted to go YouTube it, but the last time I did that to check out a band that I thought was ridiculous I ended up buying an album.


GWB


My paranoid fear of inadvertently opening Rick Astley YouTube videos is what keeps me from making the same mistake.

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Re: Controversial rapper Jim Jones to speak at Jersey City's "HIV/AIDS and the Hip-Hop Generation" e
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Thanks Sal- And believe me I have almost no idea who this guy is. I half thought someone was coming to give the kids kool aid of a different sort.

Remember that interview on 60 Minutes? Guy's name was Cam'ron. All about "Stop Snitchin'". He's a member of the same group as this Jim Jones character- The Diplomats. They also sort of made the whole stop snitching thing part of their logo.

LOL just read some of his lyrics. Hysterical as an adult, probably exciting as a kid. "P-89"... Doesn't he know 9mm are so 1990?

http://www.elyrics.net/read/j/jim-jon ... ified-gangsta-lyrics.html

You get the idea. Not a great example. No idea what Healy is thinking. Why would he honor the guy?

GWB


I love that I also googled his lyrics after our last exchange. Great minds? Very funny.

I agree that he's not necessarily the "role model" one would hope for, and never made the assumption that he's a saint. I'll even concede that giving the guy a proclamation from the City by its Mayor and State Senator is overdoing it. If that was a necessary element in order to secure the booking, then I'll gladly raise a cynical eye to the sincerity of his commitment to the issue. But I'm willing to chalk that up to opportunistic, political pandering from Jerry and Sandy absent evidence to the contrary.

I still stand by the idea that he shouldn't be barred from speaking to a public school audience about HIV/AIDS, for exactly the reason that he's an entirely a-typical spokesperson with a sincere personal connection to it, willing to let his macho swagger down for a minute and talk reality about a serious and stigmatized issue. I wouldn't feel the same about him coming to give a talk on police-citizen relations, given the no snitching thing, mind you.

It's kind of like those PSAs hitting the TV lately - with Nancy Pelosi sitting next to Newt Gingrich on a couch, (or Sharpton and Robertson), willing to unite on talking to people about the environment because of the seriousness of the issue. Given that infection rates were up a staggering 48% last year, and the growing misconception that HIV/AIDS is no longer a fatal illness and that it's somehow less of a "big deal", I'm willing to accept a flawed messenger when the message is of such importance, and if that messenger has the capability of getting through to a tough crowd in a way that a lot of others wouldn't be able to.

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Re: Controversial rapper Jim Jones to speak at Jersey City's "HIV/AIDS and the Hip-Hop Generation" e
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I'd try to invite a local pro sports figure (Knicks, Nets, Yankees, Mets, Giants, Jets, etc, etc).


That's not how things work. You don't call a random sports figure and tell them here's the issue you're looking for them to speak on behalf of, and hand them a canned speech. Certainly when the issue is HIV/AIDS and there is still a significant amount of stigma and ignorance when it comes to how willing people are to speak out about it. Good luck getting those phone calls returned.

People have causes they feel passionately about, and those are the people who make the rounds doing outreach and trying to break through to kids (and adults).

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Heck, I'd try to contact Magic Johnson (he has a dog in this fight) - although that's a long shot.


Obviously Magic Johnson is the face of this issue to a lot of people (particularly of a certain generation), but I would question whether even he would have the impact on a group of kids the way a current hip-hop performer would. You're showing your age, and missing the point that events like these aren't about who *you* would like to see come to a JC public school, or who would move *you* into thinking differently about HIV/AIDS. I'd put Magic way closer to C. Everett Coop on the spectrum than I would to Jim Jones.

You can piss and moan about how evil hip-hop is and how kids should be shielded from it or at least not encouraged towards the messages a large part of hip-hop music deals with. Or you can actually open your eyes and accept the reality that it not going anywhere, and can be a tool by which good can be achieved.

I'm no fan of the misogynistic, materialistic, violent messages in a lot of hip-hop music, but I recognize it's out there, and people within the community actually interested in doing good should be encouraged, not shot down. Whether you get on it or not, that ship has sailed, so best make good use of it.

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HIV/AIDS awareness is certainly a great cause and there is a chance one of the athletes might agree to talk to the kids.


And in the time spent to try and secure, educate, and woo those athletes that pass your test but that don't feel passionately about the issue at hand, people who are already speaking out and doing that work should be overlooked? Exactly what imaginary resources are you basing your perfect-world hypotheses on?

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Regarding my comment about not having parents - there is a difference between being conceived and born and actually *having parents*, Einstein.

Absentee parents don't count for the purpose of my statement.


But your bigoted and arrogant assumption that "they [these kids]" all (or even predominately) don't "ha[ve] parents" or that inner city public school educated children automatically have "absentee parents" certainly does count for the purpose of your statement.


Sal, you're off base. I appreciate the goal, but the ends don't justify the means in this case. You were 16 once. Can't you fathom that by inviting a violence-promoting (worse than violence promoting- violence promoting in the interests of denying victims justice) public figure to speak as an "authority "on anything legitimizes them, and not soley (or even mostly) in regards to the topic they're addressing?

Listen- Lots of people in Queens thought John Gotti was a great guy. His kid got killed by a guy backing out of his driveway. Would it be appropriate, out of ALL the speakers available, to have John Gotti come to a school in Queens to tell kids to be careful when they're driving?

Wouldn't it be in some way adding some sort of credit or creedance to Gotti & the way he lived his life, the things he stood for?

The simple fact that this guy is invited to speak elevates him. He's an authority. He will be speaking from authority, and those kids will listen. They'll look up to him. Probably already do. They'll see Healy & Cunningham give him his "Proclimation", and they'll say to themselves, JUST AS YOU OR I WOULD at age 14-17, "They say that we should talk to the police when we see a crime, but there's Mayor Healy & Ms. Cunningham up there kissin' the tail of King Stop Snitchin'. Guess it isn't such a big deal after all".

The fact that kids in Ozone Park looked up to Gotti is a problem. They're kids. Adults shouldn't reinforce their childish, immature error simply because they've run out of good ideas and don't know how to relate to the students.

The ultimate irony here is this guy is shoving sh*t down these kids throats that ultimately is going to bring them nothing but heartache and grief. And because of his success in doing so, individuals with their OWN message to deliver make a deal to have him do it. Since he's been such a sucess delivering poison, let's use him to deliver a little dose of medicine along with it...It's easier than finding another delivery system, right?

What a cop out.

Here's a question- How does the JCPD feel about this guy getting honored? Maybe Healy & Co aren't aware of exactly what this guy promotes.

(For the record, obviously Gotti's crimes are worse than this dudes- It's called hyperbole, cut me some slack, I'm tired)


GWB



GWB, thanks for taking the time to respond. And I hear what you're saying.

I guess my perspective on Jim Jones is that, from what I've read in the links in this thread, and from the passing familiarity I have with him (having heard of him and that's about it), I haven't seen enough to arrive at the opinion you have about him. I've certainly seen and heard far worse messages in hip-hop than "no snitching" and I don't know the song or the video well enough to conclude that the guy goes as far as you claim he does, or at least any further than wearing a t-shirt. I tend not to base entire opinions on people from the actions of Canadian broadcasters and one-paragraph snarky items on blender.com. If there's something you know about him that I don't, that I should be made aware of, please enlighten me.

Hyperbole or no, I get what you're saying about the Gotti analogy, far-fetched though it may be, seeing as I don't know the extent to which Jones blatantly advocates the horrible things you associate with him. What I got from your first post on the subject was a sense that anybody (datedly) labeled a "gangsta rapper" should be presumed guilty and kept from doing potentially good things with their visibility, about serious, potentially embarrassing issues that they have a personal connection to and can speak to kids about in no-bullshit vernacular. It's exactly that this message is coming from this person that would make a kid stop and pay attention, in a way that wouldn't have the same impact coming from Magic Johnson or Derek Jeter.

As for delivery systems - yeah, I'm willing to do a balancing test and weigh the value of the potential to do good against the potential harm of legitimizing objectionable messages that may be a part of this guy's act. And I still think the value outweighs the cost. Particularly in light of the limited resources a "delivery system" like ours has at finding people who can potentially make an impact and get a tough message across.

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Re: Controversial rapper Jim Jones to speak at Jersey City's "HIV/AIDS and the Hip-Hop Generation" e
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Yep - Bill Cosby was absolutely murdered by people like you for exactly the same sentiment some time ago.

What a racist.


Gee, that was far easier than actually responding to the points I made, now wasn't it?

Cosby says a lot of good stuff, but it's legitimate to criticize exactly how "in touch" Cos is/has been with working-class and poor urban African-American experience in this generation to whom he was preaching. Context matters, and while Cosby was given the "kill the messenger" treatment, I can see where his message didn't sit well: equal parts difficulty with swallowing an unpleasant truth rarely spoken outright, and unhappiness at hearing it from somebody who you don't think understands your experience. But Cosby also aimed his message directly to those he felt were making excuses and failing to live up to their responsibilities. He (to my knowledge) never said anything remotely as destructive as your suggestion that urban African-American kid = parentless.

It's an insult to Dr. Cosby to reductively mischaracterize his remarks as boiling down to "urban African-American kids have no 'parents'" as you so gleefully assume. "Exact same sentiment"? Hardly. If you really think addressing those that do equates to labeling all, there's really not much you'll take away from a reasoned conversation.

Your m.o. is ever so predictable: drop a bomb, get a response that takes the time to counter the things you say, and then take your ball and go home with a one-liner that adds nothing.

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Re: Controversial rapper Jim Jones to speak at Jersey City's "HIV/AIDS and the Hip-Hop Generation" e
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I'd try to invite a local pro sports figure (Knicks, Nets, Yankees, Mets, Giants, Jets, etc, etc).


That's not how things work. You don't call a random sports figure and tell them here's the issue you're looking for them to speak on behalf of, and hand them a canned speech. Certainly when the issue is HIV/AIDS and there is still a significant amount of stigma and ignorance when it comes to how willing people are to speak out about it. Good luck getting those phone calls returned.

People have causes they feel passionately about, and those are the people who make the rounds doing outreach and trying to break through to kids (and adults).

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Heck, I'd try to contact Magic Johnson (he has a dog in this fight) - although that's a long shot.


Obviously Magic Johnson is the face of this issue to a lot of people (particularly of a certain generation), but I would question whether even he would have the impact on a group of kids the way a current hip-hop performer would. You're showing your age, and missing the point that events like these aren't about who *you* would like to see come to a JC public school, or who would move *you* into thinking differently about HIV/AIDS. I'd put Magic way closer to C. Everett Coop on the spectrum than I would to Jim Jones.

You can piss and moan about how evil hip-hop is and how kids should be shielded from it or at least not encouraged towards the messages a large part of hip-hop music deals with. Or you can actually open your eyes and accept the reality that it not going anywhere, and can be a tool by which good can be achieved.

I'm no fan of the misogynistic, materialistic, violent messages in a lot of hip-hop music, but I recognize it's out there, and people within the community actually interested in doing good should be encouraged, not shot down. Whether you get on it or not, that ship has sailed, so best make good use of it.

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HIV/AIDS awareness is certainly a great cause and there is a chance one of the athletes might agree to talk to the kids.


And in the time spent to try and secure, educate, and woo those athletes that pass your test but that don't feel passionately about the issue at hand, people who are already speaking out and doing that work should be overlooked? Exactly what imaginary resources are you basing your perfect-world hypotheses on?

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Regarding my comment about not having parents - there is a difference between being conceived and born and actually *having parents*, Einstein.

Absentee parents don't count for the purpose of my statement.


But your bigoted and arrogant assumption that "they [these kids]" all (or even predominately) don't "ha[ve] parents" or that inner city public school educated children automatically have "absentee parents" certainly does count for the purpose of your statement.

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Re: Controversial rapper Jim Jones to speak at Jersey City's "HIV/AIDS and the Hip-Hop Generation" e
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Wow great way to mentor the kids by bringing a gangsta rapper. Our policitans are so smart!!!


Yeah, god forbid kids hear an important, life-or-death message from somebody they might actually pay attention to.



They'd listen to their parents, if they, uhm, had parents.


Really, they're being grown in petri dishes? Or reproducing by binary fission?

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Lacking that, I'd think there are a few public figures in the spectrum between C. Everett Coop and a gangsta rapper they'd pay some attention to.

Dontcha think?


Who would you recommend, that is actively involved in raising awareness of the need for HIV testing, and would be available to speak to groups of students in Jersey City, NJ?

If the options readily available are:

a.) A messenger who might otherwise be objectionable on some issues, but who could actually get the attention of kids and make a positive impact in this area, or
b.) No messenger at all, or worse, somebody with little to no chance of making a connection to those most at risk

I'm picking option a.) every time. We don't live in a perfect world, and I'll pick genuine communication of an important message from an imperfect messenger over appearance of propriety to make those not at risk feel better about it. Every time.

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Wow great way to mentor the kids by bringing a gangsta rapper. Our policitans are so smart!!!


Yeah, god forbid kids hear an important, life-or-death message from somebody they might actually pay attention to.

Something tells me C. Everett Coop wouldn't really captivate a JC school auditorium.

But hey, why portray any effort to raise awareness of HIV/AIDS neutrally if not positively when a video has been banned in Canada. Oh the scandal.

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No, you are not being heartless at all. Not one bit. I prefer an honest answer.

To asnky & To dmark526:
I'm already looking at other places on Craigslist. I think it's better for me to move on at this point.

Thank you for your inputs.



There's no harm in having a reasonable, businesslike conversation with your landlord about the issues you're having. Try to work with him. It sounds like you like the place a lot, and it'd be a shame to just move out without actually checking to see how willing your landlord might be to work with you.

Not all landlords are scumbags, and even if you'll eventually end up moving out, you'll have the peace of mind knowing that you at least asked. He may be in financial trouble if the work has stopped for a long period of time, in which case your monthly rent checks might be incredibly important to him. Tenants are not always as powerless as NewHeights likes to portray them. The prospect of you moving out could get him to listen to you.

Also, if he is not living in the building, he cannot claim the owner-occupier special rights that the law affords landlords who live in the building.

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No chance? Really?


Yes, NO chance:

http://www.ehow.com/how_2064612_get-p ... rry-concealed-weapon.html

"Be a retired New Jersey police officer or federal officer to be entitled to an unrestricted CCW permit. You may also be an armored car worker. These are not statutory requirements, but a CCW permit is almost never issued to anyone else in New Jersey.The basis for issuing a permit is almost completely discretionary and you must demonstrate an urgent need for self-protection."


Your quote is Step 2 of a 5 step process that ehow.com uses to explain how to get an unrestricted CCW permit. In NJ, an applicant must demonstrate that they have an urgent need to carry a concealed weapon. This is a high threshold, and while in practice these permits are usually only given to security professionals and/or retired law enforcement officers, that is not to say that it is an exclusive category.

Unlikely =/= impossible.

Regardless, trigger-happy Dave didn't have a CCW permit, right? I thought he was only permitted to carry inside his store while operating his business.

I haven't found the clause in the 2nd Amendment that guarantees the right to carry a concealed weapon. Maybe somebody can find it for me?

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So at the end of this law abiding citizens in JC still are denied their right to effective self defense? I couldn't determine if Dave or someone pretending to be Dave was real.

It does not matter as NJ, unlike most states in our nation, is a crime enabling state. Just to spell this out, law abiding citizens who could pass any background check, have no chance of legally carrying a firearm in self defense in NJ. So only criminals carry guns. QED.


No chance? Really?

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Re: Gunfire on Newark Ave tonight
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I think Jersey City needs gun stores. Because criminals don't buy guns at gun stores. They don't have permits, they have "connects". The criminals are armed.......and the civilians are not?


not this again. You are right, criminals do not buy their guns legally from the gun stores, they buy it from the black market. But where do you think those guns that are circulating on the black market came from?

If retail sales and home ownership of firearms are banned, that means weapons will be tightly controlled and much more difficult to obtain on the black market over time. Because the price to buy them will be much higher. This means some 15 year old kid wont just be able to lay down 200 bucks and buy a semi auto to wave around. Simple supply and demand at work.

This has been proven time and time again, just look at any country that has a strict gun country law, and see how many gun related crimes they have ratio wise to their population compared to the US.

The problem is the pro side is not willing to look ahead and give up their gun ownership for a safer country 5-10 years down the road.


Easy as all that huh?

You're conveniently leaving out the part where enough political will is generated in Congress and the States to repeal an Amendment to our Constitution found in the Bill of Rights. Because that would be necessary to override the present (and sticking around for a while) makeup of the Supreme Court, which is not going to permit the 2nd Amendment to be interpreted in the way you're suggesting.

So "the problem" isn't as simple, or as one-sided, as you pretend it is.

Posted on: 2008/5/11 19:37
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Re: Hearing delay irks gun store owner: Owner's licenses to sell and carry firearms still revoked
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I don't know if the guy posting as Dave the crazy gun store guy is really him. It sounds pretty consistent with him, but I can't say. He seems more intelligent when you walk into his store than this poster - he should be aware that what he puts in writing will be scrutinized by the community and survive forever. But someone pretending to be him to discredit him I think would do a little more severe a job of it.

The victim of an attack as he was, he was well within his right to use deadly force. This human right is even the law in most states, although New Jersey doesn't very well protect your right to defend yourself. The tiny risk to the innocent of firing into the air compared to the tiny risk to the innocent of firing at someone (and missing) isn't a big enough difference to be of concern to me. Not killing his attackers when he had the legal and moral right to is an act of generosity.

He may have incited the attack (it was not a fight - it was an attack) with racist comments. We'll never know. He may have even been the victim of racist comments and responded in kind. Of course the right to assault people in response to racist statements seems to be a one-way concept. An interesting system we have.

What concerns me about Dave is how carelessly I saw him handling BB guns, at a time when he had both BB guns and real guns in his store. He carelessly had a BB gun pointed at me when dropping the clip to show that it stores both the CO2 and the BBs. Now I knew two things - it can't possibly fire, and if it did I would not likely be injured. So I didn't get upset like I would if it was a real gun.

But I felt it a violation of proper gun handling nonetheless. And when handling BB guns and real guns all day, they should be treated with equal respect, because they look quite similar. It's not about the fact that you can do it right this time, it's about maintaining certain standards of care so that a certain class of mistake can't happen.


Again, a complete misrepresentation of self-defense laws in NJ (and most states). NJ only permits self-defense in proportional intensity to the unlawful force with which the defender is being met. Deadly force is justified in response to proportional, like deadly force, and/or if the person seeking to use self-defense reasonably believes such force is immediately necessary to defend himself. Incidentally, NJ also recognizes a civil duty to retreat.

If people who love guns bothered to understand the law better, they would make much more compelling arguments for their cause.

Posted on: 2008/5/11 19:27
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Re: Gunstore Owner vindicated on 3 bogus charges
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OMG you are SOOOOOOOOO welcome!


Posted on: 2008/5/10 4:50
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Re: Gunstore Owner vindicated on 3 bogus charges
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David's lawyer is gonna be psyched when he reads this thread.

Stay classy, David Murray!

Posted on: 2008/5/10 4:46
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Re: Gunstore Owner vindicated on 3 bogus charges
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Police at the 7th st precinct perjured themselves in front of a Grand Jury, getting the misguided grand Jury to illegally indict Mr Murray on phony gun charges. Superior Court Judge Fred Theemling dropped 3 gun charges from Murray. Murrays Lawyer, Peter Willis will get the last 3 bogus charges dropped. The assailants who attaced Mr Murray 1 year ago, will face aggravateds assault charges in Superior Court soon. The FBI ,and U.S. Attornety Chris Christie, will investigate corrupt Prosecutor Ed Defazio, and his assistant, Leo Hurley, for their perjury and corruption, and see how deep in the city government the 08 corruption goes. Possible 08 election corruption, to close a gunstore to "please" the far left, anti gun Officials, which would send Defazio and Hurley to jail, along wi th the assailants who assaulted Mr Murray. In the next few months, the FBI and U.S. Attorney will be all over the Prosecutors office, and the 7th st Precinct to see the depth of the corruption. No one knows how deep it goes, but remember the Duke Rape case. This case makes the Duke case look like a picnic.


Hi, David Murray!

Does referring to yourself in the third person feel weird, or is it kind of small potatoes compared to everything else going on in there?

Posted on: 2008/5/10 3:53
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DOWNTOWN: Wheelchair-bound Puerto Rican parade president brutally assaulted, robbed
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Puerto Rican parade president brutally assaulted, robbed Downtown, he says
by Michaelangelo Conte
Friday May 09, 2008, 4:55 PM

The wheelchair-bound president of Jersey City's Puerto Rican Day Parade was brutally robbed by two men Downtown early this morning and pummeled with such force that he was knocked out of his wheelchair.

"When I realized he was about four feet away from me I covered up my face and he kneed me in my liver and knocked me right over," said Antonio Torres, 30, who was attacked at Newark Avenue and Monmouth Street while making his way home at 2:05 a.m. after a night out. "Once I was on the ground one of them put my arm behind my back and tried to keep me on the floor while the other guy went through my pockets."

Torres, of Montgomery Street, is also the chief of staff for Hudson County Freeholder Eliu Rivera, D-Jersey City.

Torres said he'd been selling raffle tickets to raise money for the Puerto Rican Day Parade and Heritage Festival and the thugs took an envelope containing $320 of the proceeds, as well as $10 of his own money.

While he was down one of the men punched him in the stomach but luckily another vehicle pulled up and the robbers ran back to their waiting getaway car and the driver sped them off, he said.

"I know I'm an easy target because I'm in a wheelchair but everyone knows who I am and all the cops know me, that's what leads me to believe they weren't from around here," said Torres, who is a community activist and once ran for city council.

Anyone with information on the crime is asked to call the Jersey City Police Department's tipline at (201) 547-5245.

Copyright 2008 Jersey Journal



[Cue the ignorant, bigoted remarks about the JC Puerto Rican Day Parade...]

Posted on: 2008/5/9 23:23
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Re: Hearing delay irks gun store owner: Owner's licenses to sell and carry firearms still revoked
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1. If 2 men approached him and one of them swung at him he does have the right to use deadly force (just as a police officer would also have the right). It doesnt matter if he instigated by blowing his horn etc.


Patently and entirely untrue. Self-defense law does not work that way. You are only permitted to use lethal force in response to lethal force. Somebody taking a swing at somebody else (for being a loony douche) does not justify the discharge of a firearm.

Posted on: 2008/5/9 17:22
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Re: ANOTHER LANDMARK in Jersey City is threatened!
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Although the church is beautiful, unique, etc. etc., what should be done with it? Just to restore it to it's former glory and use it as some kind of museum is not often feasible. This is often an issue in cities where these beautiful old buildings are common.

It needs a use to fund it's continued existence, or it's just a drain on some ngo's funding. So is it a problem remodeling it into something else? Does it have to be a church - an empty church?

I used to work for a Fortune 500 company and I was included in a group that decided what nonprofit requests got funding. This kind of restoration without reuse means a forever commitment of funding from somebody.

So what could it be used for? And is remodeling into something else so bad?


They should take a lesson from St John the Divine in Morningside heights on how to become relevant to a changing urban population. St John has done everything from concerts and movies to craftsmanship training for youths as part of their construction program.

It looks like a great place to see a gothic horror movie!


"They" who? I thought the building no longer had an active congregation.

Posted on: 2008/5/9 2:07
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Re: ANOTHER LANDMARK in Jersey City is threatened!
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Yvonne wrote:
It is a sacred place. It should not be changed into a secular building. The Archdiocese should donate the builing to another doicese that needs a church. It should be dismantled and reassembled. It is too beautiful and sacred to be anything else.
Yvonne


Wow, that sounds practical, and cost-effective.

Posted on: 2008/5/9 1:17
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Re: Westchester Can Wait -- "Jersey City...It is like being on vacation every weekend.”
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You are entitled to your opinion, however you are morally and socially lacking for "bashing" someone based solely on their economic status. The dollar figure on someones pay check should have absolutely nothing to do with why you "bash" them...if someone practices illegal activities or shows incredibly poor morals...fine, bash them, but what you are doing is nothing more than ignorant.


If you're suggesting that all that qualifies someone as a "yuppie", whether self-identified or ascribed, is their "economic status", you're either playing coy, or you really don't understand the yuppie phenomenon.

If crushthedemoniac simply had a problem with the rich, I think this would be an entirely different conversation. But there is much distance between "rich" and "yuppie", and this is coming from somebody who many would consider being a yuppie (till they had a conversation with me).

Posted on: 2008/5/8 0:47
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Re: Problems With RobinsOak Management
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Mr Smith--posters like Sal have virtually chased me off this site with their constant negativity and criticism. I still pop in from time to time to get information about new restaurants and other news, but I rarely sign in or post any longer. Not sure if that is his goal, to brow-beat and argue every person, and each tiny point into some kind of submission, but I found it does not really add any value to my life to get involved. Not that I didn't get into it now and again when I disagreed with someone, but I just didn't feel I needed to challenge or be challenge constantly by such an intellectual juggernaut.
Good luck with ROM--I have read your posts on this thread and feel sympathy for all the crap everyone seems to be going through in these condos.


Yeah, holding people to their civic duty and, oh, i don't know, reporting to the police when they see somebody dealing crack at a playground in broad daylight less than a block from their home? Soooooo negative. Tsk tsk.

Posted on: 2008/5/7 3:57
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Re: Problems With RobinsOak Management
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To SalOntheHill:

What I meant to write was neighborhood watch, not just neighborhood.

And I am not complaining that someone was selling crack in the park, it was just an FYI to everyone in the area who might bring their kids to the playground. The reason I did not call the cops is because by the time they got down there the guy (who was already walking away) would have been long gone and why waste their time?

On another note: I love the sardonic and sanctimonious tone you took with me... another intenet tough guy.

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Right, because lifting a finger and giving a description would have been so difficult, and you're really the most qualified person to determine what's a waste of police time? Fact is that Lincoln Park is a County Park, under almost constant patrol by County Sheriffs, to whom a call would have been quickly routed.

Do "everyone in the area" a favor: save your FYIs, and report drug dealing at playgrounds when you see it, hot shot.


I spend a lot of time in Lincoln Park and this is the only time I have ever seen something like this.

It is easy to say to call the cops but unfortunately I did not have my cell phone on me or I would have, but by the time I got home it was about an hour or more later. I did follow the guy for a bit but did not see any cops in the park or I would have just walked over and told them what I saw.

I did actually consider saying something to the "dealer" myself but my judgement got the better of me, I would rather not provoke a confrontation unless it endangers my family or myself.

And the reason I posted the FYI was so that people could keep an eye out for that sort of thing. But following your logic if I can not call myself I should just pretend I did not see anything?

Maybe instead of jumping to hasty conclusions you should keep your mouth shut or ask more questions, it might help you clarify your understanding of situations, hotshot.



Wow! The plot thickens, with every post! So in your first response, he was already walking away and they wouldn't have gotten there in time, and in your follow up, you were without your cellphone for over an hour. Riiiiight. How conveeeeeenient...

Good job throwing in the "contemplation of drug-dealer confrontation" yarn, though. Nice touch, especially for somebody calling other people "tough guy".

Mmmmm.... spin.

Just call the cops next time, mmmkay? Even if it's to just give a description.

Posted on: 2008/5/7 3:44
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Re: Barack Obama for President
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I'm listening to Obama talking in NC.... "We don't want a 3d term of George Bush..."

What a pathetic comment. John McCain and the Bush family have NEVER gotten along... I hate how he is trying to trick people 's hatred towards Bush onto someone who has very little in common with GB....WEAK


He's talking about policy, not family trees. Please let us know where McCain's policy proposals depart from current Bush administration policies in any substantive way, economically, militarily, foreign policy, socially, judicially?

Once upon a time, John McCain opposed neo-con Bush admin policies. But he's reversed himself on everything from tax-cuts for the wealthy to now sanctioning torture in violation of the Geneva Convention.

People don't care about whether McCain gets along with the Bush family. People care about this country and how it's run. People are smart.

Posted on: 2008/5/7 1:49
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