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I can only speak for myself, but since you've asked, I'll account for my share of the vitriol. injcsince81 drops bigoted generalizations about minority groups, and then cries wolf when he gets called on it. One need only spend a few minutes and click about half a dozen random links in his posting history to see the pattern of dismissive, invidious, and deliberately misleading commentary. And he gets off on it. Issues like communicating to kids about HIV/AIDS shouldn't be politicized, and one need look no further than this thread to see how much ignorance still exists about the epidemic. And with all due respect, greenville, I don't disagree that there are a lot of problems with a lot of messages in hip-hop, but it's myopic and pointless to think that "if we just stopped rap, it'd all go away." Hip-hop isn't going anywhere, and it's patently false to characterize all rap with one brush. When Jim Jones is telling these kids about how his father and his uncle spent years in and out of jail, were hopeless junkies, and then he got to watch them die of AIDS, please check in with these kids about the message they're getting.
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Yay I love when you artificially conflate things as if they are objectively "true". Jones actually has plenty of credibility to speak to people about the effects of HIV/AIDS in the urban black and hispanic experience. The guy's father and uncle died of the epidemic, and he's one of the few people in his profession actually willing to share his personal experience with a captive audience. But hey, I forget that injcsince81 had been appointed arbiter of credibility. (Even typing that sentence made me laugh out loud).
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This lesson in knowingly bogus false-analogies brought to you by injcsince81. Fact is, Jones isn't being brought in to talk about "snitching", or about homophobia, or about police-citizen interaction. He's being brought in to talk to kids about HIV/AIDS. Please enlighten us, injc, as to how you connect those same dots between OJ and anger, that you do between Jones and HIV/AIDS. Thanks.
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"The place lacks attitude"? It's "not for the snobbish"? What one considers "attitude" or "snobbish" is subjective, to be sure, but I can definitely say I encountered what I consider some seriously bad attitude the two times I was there. I don't go to back to Taqueria for the same reasons I try to minimize my time spent in Williamsburg, Brooklyn. Some people love it there, and good for them. Just not my thing.
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Hahaha the above post purports to call somebody else out on dodging points? That's a knee-slapper.
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When exactly is the last time you've encountered a solution to a major problem that was, in practice, optimal? I never argued that this is optimal, but I certainly believe there is a vast distance between "optimal" and "without value". Quote:
Nothing is stopping schools and communities from also getting people living with HIV/AIDS in to talk to kids. I know people who volunteer their time doing exactly that. That's a separate issue altogether from being given the opportunity, warts and all, to have an unlikely and highly visible advocate for HIV/AIDS come in for a major event, and telling them "no thanks." Quote:
As the product of a single-parent household, in a nation where the leading contender for the highest office is the child of a single-parent household, I deeply resent and am insulted by your mathematics that readily equate 1 parent to zero parents. How dare you. Fact is, there is nothing "relevant" about your mischaracterizing Dr. Cosby's message and conflating it with your own crude, socio-economic and racial stereotyping. Again, I never suggested there wasn't a problem in many communities, including our own, regarding parenting and responsibility being taught in the household. But your dismissive, arrogant, uninformed assumptions are part of the problem, and in no way part of the solution. Quote:
And again, I ask you to find them for me. Nobody in this thread has said this is optimal, nobody has said this is ideal. But I'm not sure you and I live on the same planet if you're willing to forgo viable options with the potential to do good in the name of waiting for that "optimal" solution to land in your lap. You've actually lived in the city for 27 years and not figured out that part of life involves making the best out of what you're given?
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Which is exactly why I feel the way I do about the issue. I understand the frustration, but I'm willing to give it a shot if good can come of it. I don't think it should be overlooked that redemption is something kids in already difficult situations don't get to see enough of. If this guy's story can make them think about HIV/AIDS, and about the difference between the showmanship of Hip-Hop lyrics and the reality of crime, drugs, and promiscuity, then I think it's worthwhile, and could go a long way toward injecting a reality check into the way that they relate to Hip-Hop. Which I think we both agree would be a good thing. Quote:
My paranoid fear of inadvertently opening Rick Astley YouTube videos is what keeps me from making the same mistake.
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I love that I also googled his lyrics after our last exchange. Great minds? Very funny. I agree that he's not necessarily the "role model" one would hope for, and never made the assumption that he's a saint. I'll even concede that giving the guy a proclamation from the City by its Mayor and State Senator is overdoing it. If that was a necessary element in order to secure the booking, then I'll gladly raise a cynical eye to the sincerity of his commitment to the issue. But I'm willing to chalk that up to opportunistic, political pandering from Jerry and Sandy absent evidence to the contrary. I still stand by the idea that he shouldn't be barred from speaking to a public school audience about HIV/AIDS, for exactly the reason that he's an entirely a-typical spokesperson with a sincere personal connection to it, willing to let his macho swagger down for a minute and talk reality about a serious and stigmatized issue. I wouldn't feel the same about him coming to give a talk on police-citizen relations, given the no snitching thing, mind you. It's kind of like those PSAs hitting the TV lately - with Nancy Pelosi sitting next to Newt Gingrich on a couch, (or Sharpton and Robertson), willing to unite on talking to people about the environment because of the seriousness of the issue. Given that infection rates were up a staggering 48% last year, and the growing misconception that HIV/AIDS is no longer a fatal illness and that it's somehow less of a "big deal", I'm willing to accept a flawed messenger when the message is of such importance, and if that messenger has the capability of getting through to a tough crowd in a way that a lot of others wouldn't be able to.
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GWB, thanks for taking the time to respond. And I hear what you're saying. I guess my perspective on Jim Jones is that, from what I've read in the links in this thread, and from the passing familiarity I have with him (having heard of him and that's about it), I haven't seen enough to arrive at the opinion you have about him. I've certainly seen and heard far worse messages in hip-hop than "no snitching" and I don't know the song or the video well enough to conclude that the guy goes as far as you claim he does, or at least any further than wearing a t-shirt. I tend not to base entire opinions on people from the actions of Canadian broadcasters and one-paragraph snarky items on blender.com. If there's something you know about him that I don't, that I should be made aware of, please enlighten me. Hyperbole or no, I get what you're saying about the Gotti analogy, far-fetched though it may be, seeing as I don't know the extent to which Jones blatantly advocates the horrible things you associate with him. What I got from your first post on the subject was a sense that anybody (datedly) labeled a "gangsta rapper" should be presumed guilty and kept from doing potentially good things with their visibility, about serious, potentially embarrassing issues that they have a personal connection to and can speak to kids about in no-bullshit vernacular. It's exactly that this message is coming from this person that would make a kid stop and pay attention, in a way that wouldn't have the same impact coming from Magic Johnson or Derek Jeter. As for delivery systems - yeah, I'm willing to do a balancing test and weigh the value of the potential to do good against the potential harm of legitimizing objectionable messages that may be a part of this guy's act. And I still think the value outweighs the cost. Particularly in light of the limited resources a "delivery system" like ours has at finding people who can potentially make an impact and get a tough message across.
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Gee, that was far easier than actually responding to the points I made, now wasn't it? Cosby says a lot of good stuff, but it's legitimate to criticize exactly how "in touch" Cos is/has been with working-class and poor urban African-American experience in this generation to whom he was preaching. Context matters, and while Cosby was given the "kill the messenger" treatment, I can see where his message didn't sit well: equal parts difficulty with swallowing an unpleasant truth rarely spoken outright, and unhappiness at hearing it from somebody who you don't think understands your experience. But Cosby also aimed his message directly to those he felt were making excuses and failing to live up to their responsibilities. He (to my knowledge) never said anything remotely as destructive as your suggestion that urban African-American kid = parentless. It's an insult to Dr. Cosby to reductively mischaracterize his remarks as boiling down to "urban African-American kids have no 'parents'" as you so gleefully assume. "Exact same sentiment"? Hardly. If you really think addressing those that do equates to labeling all, there's really not much you'll take away from a reasoned conversation. Your m.o. is ever so predictable: drop a bomb, get a response that takes the time to counter the things you say, and then take your ball and go home with a one-liner that adds nothing.
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That's not how things work. You don't call a random sports figure and tell them here's the issue you're looking for them to speak on behalf of, and hand them a canned speech. Certainly when the issue is HIV/AIDS and there is still a significant amount of stigma and ignorance when it comes to how willing people are to speak out about it. Good luck getting those phone calls returned. People have causes they feel passionately about, and those are the people who make the rounds doing outreach and trying to break through to kids (and adults). Quote:
Obviously Magic Johnson is the face of this issue to a lot of people (particularly of a certain generation), but I would question whether even he would have the impact on a group of kids the way a current hip-hop performer would. You're showing your age, and missing the point that events like these aren't about who *you* would like to see come to a JC public school, or who would move *you* into thinking differently about HIV/AIDS. I'd put Magic way closer to C. Everett Coop on the spectrum than I would to Jim Jones. You can piss and moan about how evil hip-hop is and how kids should be shielded from it or at least not encouraged towards the messages a large part of hip-hop music deals with. Or you can actually open your eyes and accept the reality that it not going anywhere, and can be a tool by which good can be achieved. I'm no fan of the misogynistic, materialistic, violent messages in a lot of hip-hop music, but I recognize it's out there, and people within the community actually interested in doing good should be encouraged, not shot down. Whether you get on it or not, that ship has sailed, so best make good use of it. Quote:
And in the time spent to try and secure, educate, and woo those athletes that pass your test but that don't feel passionately about the issue at hand, people who are already speaking out and doing that work should be overlooked? Exactly what imaginary resources are you basing your perfect-world hypotheses on? Quote:
But your bigoted and arrogant assumption that "they [these kids]" all (or even predominately) don't "ha[ve] parents" or that inner city public school educated children automatically have "absentee parents" certainly does count for the purpose of your statement.
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Who would you recommend, that is actively involved in raising awareness of the need for HIV testing, and would be available to speak to groups of students in Jersey City, NJ? If the options readily available are: a.) A messenger who might otherwise be objectionable on some issues, but who could actually get the attention of kids and make a positive impact in this area, or b.) No messenger at all, or worse, somebody with little to no chance of making a connection to those most at risk I'm picking option a.) every time. We don't live in a perfect world, and I'll pick genuine communication of an important message from an imperfect messenger over appearance of propriety to make those not at risk feel better about it. Every time.
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Yeah, god forbid kids hear an important, life-or-death message from somebody they might actually pay attention to. Something tells me C. Everett Coop wouldn't really captivate a JC school auditorium. But hey, why portray any effort to raise awareness of HIV/AIDS neutrally if not positively when a video has been banned in Canada. Oh the scandal.
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There's no harm in having a reasonable, businesslike conversation with your landlord about the issues you're having. Try to work with him. It sounds like you like the place a lot, and it'd be a shame to just move out without actually checking to see how willing your landlord might be to work with you. Not all landlords are scumbags, and even if you'll eventually end up moving out, you'll have the peace of mind knowing that you at least asked. He may be in financial trouble if the work has stopped for a long period of time, in which case your monthly rent checks might be incredibly important to him. Tenants are not always as powerless as NewHeights likes to portray them. The prospect of you moving out could get him to listen to you. Also, if he is not living in the building, he cannot claim the owner-occupier special rights that the law affords landlords who live in the building.
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Your quote is Step 2 of a 5 step process that ehow.com uses to explain how to get an unrestricted CCW permit. In NJ, an applicant must demonstrate that they have an urgent need to carry a concealed weapon. This is a high threshold, and while in practice these permits are usually only given to security professionals and/or retired law enforcement officers, that is not to say that it is an exclusive category. Unlikely =/= impossible. Regardless, trigger-happy Dave didn't have a CCW permit, right? I thought he was only permitted to carry inside his store while operating his business. I haven't found the clause in the 2nd Amendment that guarantees the right to carry a concealed weapon. Maybe somebody can find it for me?
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No chance? Really?
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Easy as all that huh? You're conveniently leaving out the part where enough political will is generated in Congress and the States to repeal an Amendment to our Constitution found in the Bill of Rights. Because that would be necessary to override the present (and sticking around for a while) makeup of the Supreme Court, which is not going to permit the 2nd Amendment to be interpreted in the way you're suggesting. So "the problem" isn't as simple, or as one-sided, as you pretend it is.
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Again, a complete misrepresentation of self-defense laws in NJ (and most states). NJ only permits self-defense in proportional intensity to the unlawful force with which the defender is being met. Deadly force is justified in response to proportional, like deadly force, and/or if the person seeking to use self-defense reasonably believes such force is immediately necessary to defend himself. Incidentally, NJ also recognizes a civil duty to retreat. If people who love guns bothered to understand the law better, they would make much more compelling arguments for their cause.
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OMG you are SOOOOOOOOO welcome!
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David's lawyer is gonna be psyched when he reads this thread.
Stay classy, David Murray!
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Hi, David Murray! Does referring to yourself in the third person feel weird, or is it kind of small potatoes compared to everything else going on in there?
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by Michaelangelo Conte Friday May 09, 2008, 4:55 PM The wheelchair-bound president of Jersey City's Puerto Rican Day Parade was brutally robbed by two men Downtown early this morning and pummeled with such force that he was knocked out of his wheelchair. "When I realized he was about four feet away from me I covered up my face and he kneed me in my liver and knocked me right over," said Antonio Torres, 30, who was attacked at Newark Avenue and Monmouth Street while making his way home at 2:05 a.m. after a night out. "Once I was on the ground one of them put my arm behind my back and tried to keep me on the floor while the other guy went through my pockets." Torres, of Montgomery Street, is also the chief of staff for Hudson County Freeholder Eliu Rivera, D-Jersey City. Torres said he'd been selling raffle tickets to raise money for the Puerto Rican Day Parade and Heritage Festival and the thugs took an envelope containing $320 of the proceeds, as well as $10 of his own money. While he was down one of the men punched him in the stomach but luckily another vehicle pulled up and the robbers ran back to their waiting getaway car and the driver sped them off, he said. "I know I'm an easy target because I'm in a wheelchair but everyone knows who I am and all the cops know me, that's what leads me to believe they weren't from around here," said Torres, who is a community activist and once ran for city council. Anyone with information on the crime is asked to call the Jersey City Police Department's tipline at (201) 547-5245. Copyright 2008 Jersey Journal [Cue the ignorant, bigoted remarks about the JC Puerto Rican Day Parade...]
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Patently and entirely untrue. Self-defense law does not work that way. You are only permitted to use lethal force in response to lethal force. Somebody taking a swing at somebody else (for being a loony douche) does not justify the discharge of a firearm.
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"They" who? I thought the building no longer had an active congregation.
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Wow, that sounds practical, and cost-effective.
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If you're suggesting that all that qualifies someone as a "yuppie", whether self-identified or ascribed, is their "economic status", you're either playing coy, or you really don't understand the yuppie phenomenon. If crushthedemoniac simply had a problem with the rich, I think this would be an entirely different conversation. But there is much distance between "rich" and "yuppie", and this is coming from somebody who many would consider being a yuppie (till they had a conversation with me).
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Yeah, holding people to their civic duty and, oh, i don't know, reporting to the police when they see somebody dealing crack at a playground in broad daylight less than a block from their home? Soooooo negative. Tsk tsk.
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Wow! The plot thickens, with every post! So in your first response, he was already walking away and they wouldn't have gotten there in time, and in your follow up, you were without your cellphone for over an hour. Riiiiight. How conveeeeeenient... Good job throwing in the "contemplation of drug-dealer confrontation" yarn, though. Nice touch, especially for somebody calling other people "tough guy". Mmmmm.... spin. Just call the cops next time, mmmkay? Even if it's to just give a description.
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He's talking about policy, not family trees. Please let us know where McCain's policy proposals depart from current Bush administration policies in any substantive way, economically, militarily, foreign policy, socially, judicially? Once upon a time, John McCain opposed neo-con Bush admin policies. But he's reversed himself on everything from tax-cuts for the wealthy to now sanctioning torture in violation of the Geneva Convention. People don't care about whether McCain gets along with the Bush family. People care about this country and how it's run. People are smart.
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